Jennifer Lopez double tapped an Instagram post on recognizing red flags in partners as rumors swirl her and Ben Affleck’s relationship is on the rocks. “You can’t build a relationship with someone who is disconnected from themselves. We can’t expect someone to see us when we can’t even see themselves,” a romance coach account run by Lenna Marsk captioned a carousel of photos. “Getting in a relationship is the easy part. Nurturing & fostering it is a different story. After all, love is not a feeling, it’s action ❤️.” The slides advised that someone wouldn’t be able to build and maintain a healt…