JAFFNA — Kiritharan Venuja sits in front of her house making garlands to sell, while taking care of one of her four children. Her thoughts are tethered to a time now long past. “I don’t even have any of my husband’s [clothes] to keep his memory alive. I had asked him to take away all his clothes,” she says, her eyes brimming with tears. Just over a year ago, Venuja’s husband, Suntharalingam Kiritharan, was still alive. They had been married for 14 years. He owned a vehicle repair shop in Chavakachcheri, their hometown in Jaffna in Sri Lanka’s Northern Province. But he was struggling financiall…