People use the term “the ick” in dating contexts to describe something that puts them off someone else, usually quite quickly and irreversibly. It might be tempting to see icks as flippant and unreasonable, but one intimacy and relationships expert says women “should listen to their icks.” British journalist and author Louise Perry spoke to The Diary of a CEO podcast last week to discuss the role casual intimacy, one-night stands and male motivations – in the world of dating and interpersonal relationships – play in contemporary society. Evolutionarily speaking, ‘fear is a gift’During their co…