Sterling K. Brown will allow his kids to decide their own futures. The 48-year-old actor – who has sons Amare, eight, and Andrew, 12, with his wife Ryan Michelle Bathe – wants his children to decide for themselves what they want to do with their lives. Sterling – who has been married to Ryan since 2007 – told PEOPLE: “There’s this idea I think that both of us agree on, most of the time, is that they’re not to be moulded into versions of us. That they kind of are who they are when they come to you. And we’re just trying to shepherd them to become the best version of who they already are, right?…