A New York Times columnist wants Arab-Americans frustrated at the Israel-Hamas war to know he shares their pain — but that turning their back on the election and letting former President Donald Trump win will make everything much worse. The lack of progress on peace in the region, as the U.S. tries to broker ceasefire talks between Israel and Hamas but continues to supply weapons to Israel, has led a number of prominent Arab and Muslim leaders to reject the Democratic Party out of anger over President Joe Biden’s lack of course correction — and many see Vice President Kamala Harris as complici…