Ask Pulse is a weekly advice column and a listening ear to help you sort through your issues. This week on Ask Pulse, a Nigerian-Ivorian man is confused about who to be with—a Nigerian or Ghanaian. Dear Pulse,I was born Nigerian, but I have an Ivorian passport. Years of living on the Ivory Coast have made me lose my Nigerian accent, and so many people have mistaken me for an Ivorian. I can’t speak my Nigerian native language, but I still feel Nigerian. Everything I do, I do it in a Nigerian way—I can’t get that out of my system, and I love it. Last year, I visited Ghana and I met a beautiful G…