DEAR ERIC: Recently, I found an old forgotten photo of my first wife. We divorced 40 years ago after a short marriage and now I am happily married to a wonderful woman. I looked up her brother who told me that my ex has been married two more times and after a disastrous second marriage is now happily married with kids. I told her brother I would love to catch up after such a long time. Her brother relayed that message, and I’ve heard nothing but crickets. Should I keep trying or just give up? – Reconnecting Ex DEAR RECONNECTING: Sometimes no answer is an answer. If it’s a photo that you’re sur…