The college admissions process can be stressful, cold-hearted and a major ego killer. And that’s not even considering how students feel. New Jersey colleges get rejected, too. Sometimes far more often than you would think. Consider what it’s like to work in admissions at Seton Hall, the respected Catholic university that 90% of high school seniors said “thanks, but no thanks” to after getting accepted in 2023. A college’s yield — the percentage of students who actually enroll after they are accepted — is a point of pride for dream universities like Princeton. And it’s a potential panic attack …