DEAR AMY: My fiancé and I are both in our mid-20′s. We got married last summer in a small church in our hometown. The day before our wedding, the minister performing the ceremony scheduled a “walk-through” for 4 p.m. The purpose of this was for us to essentially walk through the ceremony, with us, the attendants, and our folks. Our minister was extremely clear that this was only for this small group of people, that it would last for 45 minutes to an hour, and that no “plus ones” or other guests should be in the church. After that, we could move on to the rehearsal cocktails and dinner. My sist…
