By Phoebe Arslanagić-Little The stress and exorbitant expense of weddings makes couple feel they are prize specimens at Crufts, rather than two human beings making solemn vows, says Phoebe Arslanagić-Little July has begun and we are in the thick of wedding season. For couples, the sting of discovering how much a photographer costs and decisions about napkin colours are in the past: all that is left is to enjoy the day. My own approach to wedding planning was to do the fun bits first. I gamely organised cake tasting with well over a year to spare, but panics about the less delicious elements of…