You probably never thought you would hear it, but Tottenham Hotspur are now labelled as ‘the benchmark’ for Manchester United. The two teams, in recent years, have endured equally frustrating seasons, but despite the chaos at Old Trafford, two trophies have still been delivered by Erik ten Hag. It’s what Tottenham fans crave and they have been trying to push for. But Manchester United’s FA Cup final win over Manchester City, amid their instability, is proof that it can happen even during the darkest of times. Whilst Manchester United will forever be a bigger club and draw than Tottenham on the…