OU softball knows it’s going to learn a lot about itself during the Bedlam series. What it learned Friday is that Oklahoma State is here to play. This isn’t just going to be a crowning moment for the Sooners. OSU took OU’s first punch and responded in a huge way to give the Sooners a 6-3 Bedlam loss at Love’s Field. You can’t say OU didn’t have the chances. Walk after walk after walk, but OU failed to do much with it. The Sooners only had one hit through the first five innings and finished with just three. The huge storyline going into the weekend was pitcherKelly Maxwell. How could it not be?…