The lack of understanding of one’s own desires often accompanies adults and entails many problems, mostly those related to society. Why exactly we fail to understand our desires, according to psychologist Oleksandr Tsurkan. Why we don’t understand our desires Everyone in childhood heard certain instructions at times when they simply didn’t know what to do or when we were forbidden to do what we wanted, and our hobbies, desires, interests, etc., were devalued. With such phrases, they instilled in you that: You need to constantly be engaged in something useful. Then they won’t bother you, won’t …