She says that she constantly has to remind herself to be in her “feminine energy.” Big Brother Naija star Tolani Baj has opened up on how she handles her independent nature when she’s in a relationship.Speaking with Clout Radio, the reality TV star was asked how she handles being an independent woman but still being treated like a princess by a man she’s dating. She said that when she’s with someone, she tends to fade into a more as a more submissive version of herself and let him lead. “So when I don’t have a guy in my life right, I’m in my masculine energy. I do everything with or without a …