By Coleen Nolan Dear Coleen I have a couple of good friends I’ve known since we were all at university together. We stayed close after uni and even lived together for a year, but then went our separate ways – I moved in with my boyfriend (now husband), one friend has a big job that takes up all her time, and the other was married, but is now going through a break up. Over the years, I’ve been the one to organise get-togethers two or three times a year – weekend trips, nights out and so on. They’ve never organised anything, but I was happy to do it because I had the time and wanted to see them….