Gone are the days when people fell in love organically. You can now reject someone or get rejected in a single swipe. One may think dating websites and apps have made it easy for daters to look for what they want, especially with the endless options you never seem to run out of. But a dating expert argues that a “going with the flow” or “seeing where things go” mindset is bound to end in heartbreak. Why ‘seeing where things go’ is dangerous British dating and relationship coach Matthew Hussey doesn’t believe dating casually is a bad idea, but being in a situationship for a long time can leave …