All Ben Affleck and Matt Damon want is for their wives to get along. The A-list actors — who have been best friends since high school — are married to Jennifer Lopez and Luciana Barroso, respectively, however, their partners don’t share the same bond Affleck and Damon do. It seems tensions stem from Lopez and Affleck giving their love a second chance roughly two decades after breaking off their engagement in 2004. “Matt met Lucy the same year Jennifer and Ben split up the first time,” a source recently spilled to a news publication of Damon and Barroso — who tied the knot in 2005 and share thr…