By Mitya Underwood Ben Ofoedu’s remarks about his ex Vanessa Feltz are being described as ‘like rubbing salt in the wound’. Last month, Vanessa confessed that she finally felt “settled enough” to spend her first night alone after breaking up with her fiance Ben Ofoedu in February 2023. However, the 61 year old, who ended things with Phats and Small singer Ben, 51, after finding out he had been unfaithful, has faced further embarrassment. Vanessa is said to be feeling “mortified” after Ben publicly expressed his desire to date her friend Ulrika Jonsson and criticised Vanessa for ignoring him du…