A New York Times gender writer slammed “family man” Donald Trump Thursday for using his wife Melania as a “prop” while he’s bombarded by sleazy allegations of extra-marital sex. Jessica Bennett vented that Trump’s lawyers are playing up his love for his wife and his kids, his commitment to the family unit, in the hope that it’ll sway the jury away from lurid allegations witnesses are making in his hush money trial. He is facing 34 business fraud charges involving payments made to an adult movie actress, allegedly to keep her quiet about claims she had a sexual relationship with him. Want more …