DEAR AMY: My husband is a wonderful man. We’ve been married more than 40 years. He has children who are now in their 50s from a previous marriage, and we all get along great. His two daughters are quite overweight. He wants to say something to them and perhaps incentivize them to lose weight by offering to pay for any remedies to get their weight-loss process going. I too have had a weight problem and have slowly lost 50 pounds over the past 10 years. I’ve been hoping to lead by example. I think he’s making a mistake to bring weight up to his girls. But he says he’s their father and he needs t…
