DEAR ERIC: I’m in my late 50s, my husband is in his early 70s. While he’s always been incredibly intelligent, he has also always had a very poor memory. We believe he might also have ADHD. As he’s aged, his memory and decision-making has worsened. Several years ago, we had him baselined by a neuropsychologist, then re-evaluated twice. His assessment showed nothing more than age-related memory changes. After the last assessment three years ago, the neuropsychologist indicated that we were probably having him evaluated more often than he needed. I’ve gotten help for my own anxiety about this and…