DEAR ANNIE: I read a letter in your column about inheritance issues, and I wanted to share my own story. My mother transferred a $930,000 house near the ocean to my single brother a few years ago in secret. We found out when trying to look at money for a care home for my father. Her argument was that he has no family or children like my other sibling and me. This sibling also decided to give up working in his mid-40s and surfs, dives and fishes, while my other brother is a Fortune 500 director and I have my own property company. He often mocks us for working so hard and the toll it takes on ou…