Ciara is going to “give [herself] grace” over the weight gain that came with her pregnancy. The 38-year-old pop singer welcomed Amora in December 2023 with husband Russell Wison and admitted that her weight has been going up and down since the birth but she is going to allow herself some treats amid her health kick because she “needs it” for the benefit of her mental health. She told E! News: “Sometimes, you want to make things picture-perfect and life doesn’t allow you to do that. This is real s***. There’s no perfectness to motherhood. For example, I had a scale drop and now the scale went b…