Gerry Turner and wife Theresa Nist were still working out a place to live prior to their big divorce bombshell. Though the Golden Bachelor couple tied the knot over three months ago, they were still living in separate states. “The problem is, Theresa can’t just pick up and leave her job, and she has family in New Jersey,” the source told a magazine. “Initially, they thought Gerry could move in with her but that didn’t happen.” Meanwhile, Turner is Indiana. At one point, the duo decided they would shack up in Charleston, S.C., but the plan never came to fruition. “For the time being they’re sta…