By Danielle Kate Wroe We all know that it’s wrong to have an affair with someone you work with. If you spend a lot of time with a co-worker, however, it can be easy to end up falling for them – simply because you’re around them a lot. But this isn’t a good enough excuse – especially when one party is in a relationship, or even married. Writing in to Dear Deidre’s advice column, a 38-year-old man admitted that he’d been enjoying being his 42-year-old married boss’ bit on the side, and they thought they were being subtle about it, “sneaking around” and they had no concerns that anyone had a clue…