Mel B stopped “believing in love ” when she came out of her allegedly abusive marriage. The 48-year-old pop star was married to producer Stephen Belafonte from 2007 until 2017 in what she has alleged was an abusive relationship – although he has always denied the claims – and even though she is now engaged to hairdresser Rory McPhee, 36, admitted that it took her a decade to learn to “build [herself] up” again but was able to trust her fiance because he was already a family friend. She told Us Weekly: “I didn’t believe in love and trust because I’d had 10 years of such bad abuse that when I ca…