Dear Anna, Is there ever a point where dating doesn’t feel futile? By dating, I’m referencing those initial few outings with someone new, not, like, as a stand-in for being in a committed relationship. It seems like every couple I know of either dove headfirst into couplehood (monogamous or otherwise) practically from the moment they crossed paths or were merely part of the same friend group before things evolved romantically. Am I doing something wrong here or is dating outdated? — Can Other Understandings Revive This Saccharine Heart In Progress Dear COURTSHIP, Dating is constantly evolving …