Jennifer Lopez’s first husband revealed what it’s really like to be married to the international pop star as she prepares for her fourth divorce. RadarOnline.com can reveal Ojani Noa’s marriage to J Lo was “passionate” to the very end, but said as soon as she got what she wanted, he “wasn’t needed.” He claimed: “It was so great, but at the same time so sad because we kind of knew it was the end of the road.” Lopez and her first husband married in 1997, a little over a year after they met, but their marriage only lasted 11 months. Noa was the only one of the singer’s four spouses to have known …