NEW YORK — No one can ever say Jennifer Lopez doesn’t take the high road. The two-time Grammy and Golden Globe-nominated singer-actress opened up about the grace she extended to Ayo Edebiri after clips of the recent Emmy winner talking trash about her popped up on social media. Days before Edebiri was set to host “Saturday Night Live” with Lopez booked as a musical guest, audio resurfaced from a 2020 podcast on which “The Bear” actress was heard calling J.Lo’s musical career “one long scam,” adding that she can’t sing. But in a Variety cover story published on Tuesday, the “This Is Me … Now” s…