Dear Kid Whisperer, I am at a loss with my 10-year-old daughter. She has some attention issues. Her inability to attend to life is causing problems, and her anxiety and stubbornness is compounding these problems. She won’t pay attention to things, like not listening to the coach during basketball practice, and then she fails at things, like not knowing the play in the basketball game. Her teammates then get frustrated with her, and she gets really upset. I try to help by giving her strategies, but this just makes her frustrated with me so she won’t listen, and the same things keep happening. A…