A psychologist has argued that some men have an “ulterior motive” when it comes to saying I love you first, and while those words are often well received, they could be playing you for a fool. Love might be one of the simplest human emotions, but it’s often the source of so much heartbreak and turmoil in relationships. Regardless of helpful advice from the likes of RuPaul, there’s a reason that most relationships and marriages end in separation. Why do men say I love you? Not for the reason you thinkMost of us want that long-term relationship that will have us looking back with kind eyes and a…