A husband was filmed attacking and “headbutting” his wife after the pair argued at a party at a hotel. Phillip Buxton, a children’s football referee, and his now-former partner got into a row after downing too much booze while at the shindig in Chatham in December. But Medway Magistrates Court heard the 31-year-old had since turned his life around and had quit drinking and started attending counselling sessions. Police were called to the St George hotel on December 16 after people heard the pair shouting. One witness decided to film the 10-minute row on their mobile phone. While the victim tol…