DEAR AMY: My wife and I have a 14-month-old baby. Overall we have adjusted pretty well to parenthood. My wife works full time and I’m scheduled to take grad school classes three days a week, so we have been looking into daycare. We checked out some places and all had plusses and minuses. The one we thought might be the best for us is very close to my wife’s office, so it would be convenient to have our baby there. We made an appointment and went over to tour the place. It was clean and organized. There are about 10 babies in the “yellow room,” our child’s age group. When we went to look at the…