DEAR MISS MANNERS: While my best friend and her partner do not believe in traditional marriage, they went to city hall following the birth of their child to ensure the family enjoyed the associated legal protections and privileges. There was no celebration, no announcements, and she told me directly that they did not want any gifts, although she did send me a photo from the day. Several months later, I was delighted that they were coming into town so my husband and I could meet the baby. We thought to have a little fun, and purchased a hideous trinket from a thrift store. During the visit, I p…
