Eddie Murphy’s soon-to-be wife, Paige Butcher, doesn’t let him get away with anything — and sources reveal their household is all the happier because of it, even if his shell-shocked pals snicker behind their macho buddy’s back he has turned into a henpecked pushover right before their eyes! RadarOnline.com can reveal an insider said: “Paige is calling the shots and Eddie doesn’t seem to mind at all, he lets her rule.” “They’re not officially married, but they may as well be because his slogan these days is ‘a happy wife, a happy life,’ which seems to be working for him — even if it’s not exac…