Exclusivity and commitment aren’t the unspoken rules of a romantic relationship anymore. There’s a new trend on the rise called ‘Tolyamory’, and it argues infidelity isn’t problematic. The new form of infidelity has raised eyebrows, dividing romantic partners over its terms. Unlike in a Polyamorous relationship – consensual non-monogamy – Tolyamory can be damaging due to its blurred boundaries. But a relationship and dating expert tells The Focus, that a Tolyamarous relationship can be “healthy” if both partners stick to certain conditions. What is a Tolyamorus relationship? You must live unde…