We say one thing and feel another. How important do you find talking about things — does it feel like you’re exposing yourself and accepting your vulnerabilities? For the latest news & views from every corner of the world, Worldcrunch Today is the only truly international newsletter. Sign up here. In one of those very early-in-the-dating-period soul-searching long chats Irene and I had, she revealed she had no fears. From a place of visceral intuition, I dared to make a very risky list of what I thought she might have fears of. It was one of those momentous talks, hinging on us going forward a…