Is anyone more sophisticated than Kelly Rutherford? The Gossip Girl alum, 55, was a major fashion icon while portraying Lily van der Woodsen in the hit CW show, but in real life, she’s continued to set trends and be ahead of the style curve. Before the item became the highly coveted closet staple it is today, Rutherford bought her first Hermès bag in the 1990s. “I had seen Catherine Deneuve and all these cool, chic women in Paris wearing them, and on the Upper East Side,” she recalled in a recent interview. “None of my friends had those bags at the time. It wasn’t trendy.” “I remember saving u…