Victoria Dash spent $1,200 for a birthing coach because she didn’t know the state of New Jersey would have paid for it. As a new mom buying formula that cost $50 a can, the Burlington Township resident said it was frustrating considering how dear the money was to her and her family. “We spent the first six months of my daughter’s life on a hunt for formula,” said Dash, 28. “And if I had that extra money, I could have just been like, ‘Here, take the money.’” In New Jersey, where dozens of women die each year during childbirth, the state hopes birthing coaches will help low-income moms have bett…