Lupita Nyong’o was “living in a lot of pain and heartbreak” following her split from Selema Masekela. The 40-year-old actress took to social media in October last year to announce that she and TV host Selema , 52, had called time on their relationship after a year together and despite her hesitation to share the news has now admitted that she ended up being so “moved” by the supportive response of her fans. She told Net-a-Porter: ” In my mind, when I shared my relationship status with the world, it was because I felt sure about it. I was living in a lot of pain and heartbreak. I looked at the …