A former employee of Jennifer Lopezwho spent time with Sean “Diddy” Combs when the stars were a couple said he treated her entire team “as if we worked for him,” claiming he made the women uncomfortable. “He felt like he was our boss by default,” the ex-staffer said, RadarOnline.com has learned. “Anything he wanted, we had to go fetch it. That was more annoying than anything.” J Lo and the rap mogul were first romantically linked in 1999. They dated for two years before splitting in 2001. “Diddy seemed to classify us all into two categories: f—able and not f—able,” the former staffer told …