Shannon Beador has strong feelings about John Janssen’s whirlwind romance with Alexis Bellino, with sources connected to The Real Housewives of Orange County star telling RadarOnline.com that she’s hurt her ex-boyfriend appears to be going full-steam ahead in his new relationship. “She’s sad,” one insider shared, with another adding that many in Beador’s inner circle are casting doubt that Janssen bought Bellino an alleged $16k ring for Christmas just one month into their romance. “Shannon said he didn’t pay for s—,” a source told RadarOnline.com when asked about the promise ring that Beador…