By Coleen Nolan Dear ColeenI’m a woman in my late 30s, I’ve been married for six years and we have one daughter, who’s just over a year old. I’m a bit confused about the state of my marriage and hope you can shed some light on it. Recently, I reconnected with an old boss of mine, a great guy who I get on brilliantly with. I think he carried a torch for me back in the day, but I was engaged to my husband and, being a decent guy, he never said anything to me, although it was a kind of open secret in the office that he liked me. Anyway, he wants to meet for dinner to catch up, so I ran it by my h…