DEAR AMY: My wife of 30-plus years won’t stop flirting with a man that works for her, although not in the same office. He is also married and flirts back. What bothers me is he has slept with at least one other woman in her office. He told her that his wife refused to have sex with him. I have seen texts from both of them, by accident. Additionally, they do dinners and meetings outside of work when the spouses are “unavailable.” I told her that this needs to stop but she claims that he is a friend and that she needs his help. She refuses marriage counseling. I recently learned that she had an …
