DEAR MISS MANNERS: I’m what they call a HENRY: High Earner, Not Rich Yet. I’m a single woman in my mid-40s who works in the financial arena. I have a stable government job, a sizable 401(k) and will receive a decent pension. I really enjoy talking about finance and money. It’s not only part of my profession, but a personal passion. I’ve worked hard to get where I am today, and a recent inheritance will get me pretty close to achieving financial independence. However, I’m starting to realize that it’s probably best if I don’t discuss my financial situation with other people. What is the appropr…