New York Governor Kathy Hochul has defended her decision to attend slain NYPD Officer Jonathan Diller’s wake on Friday after a viral video appeared to show her being confronted by a mourner and asked to leave, RadarOnline.com has learned. “We always ask: ‘Would the families like us there?’ If the families say, ‘No, this is the time for our personal family grieving, we don’t want a politician there,’ we don’t go,” Hochul said during an Easter event at the governor’s mansion on Saturday, per Politico. “In this case, we asked. We were told the family is welcoming. We always check, and they said t…